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Dating Advice From Casanova Pete

Casanova Pete has a reputation for being a real ladies bunny. In his earlier days, this rabbit was one that could chase any chick and land a date. That was until he met Penny, the love of his life, but that is another story. Although his heart only goes pitter patter for one sweetie now, good old Pete has agreed to share some of his best dating advice.

 

 

Sit back and get ready guys, this is some good stuff, and it does work. Just ask the long line of hot bunnies who once had the pleasure of being swept off their feet by the one and only Casanova Pete.

Pete offers his advice depending on where you are in a relationship. Here are some of his best tips:

• The initial ask out. According to Pete, the ladies love sincere and not phony. Leave the lines for the guys and tell a sweetie what you really think. The best way to get attention from a cutie is to just go for it and ask her out for dinner, lunch or even coffee. Lilies, chocolates or a special gift basket can all help out, too.

• The first date. While it is tempting to come on strong during a first date, Pete says that is never a good idea. Sweet and suave are the only ways to play it. Be yourself, but do not be a cad. For an extra special touch, make sure to open doors, greet her with flowers or a small gift and pay attention to her needs while you are out. End the date with a sweet kiss on the cheek and the promise for a second date if everything went well.

• Subsequent dates. If all goes well on the first date, Pete recommends following up as soon as possible. It is still wise not to move forward too fast. Keep the pressure off, but start turning on the romance. Take her out for a candlelit dinner, a walk under the stars or even a night of slow dancing. Let things progress naturally. If the chemistry is right, Pete says nothing will get in your way.

Now, if you have been in a relationship a while and want to turn up the heat once more, Pete has some advice on this front, as well. His secrets for keeping things fresh include:

• Never forget to be a gentleman. Whether you have been dating for a long time or have been married for eons, if you want to keep the romance alive, be a gentleman. Open doors, whisper sweet nothings in her ear and even pull out chairs for your ladylove.

• Keep it spicy and keep her guessing. Never let complacency get in your way. Surprise your lady with gifts, nights on the town and even spicy and romantic nights in.

Pete is one suave rabbit. If you want to get an edge on dating, his advice is worth following. Chances are if you pay heed, you will have your ladylove swooning over you in no time.

 

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Have A Hopping Good Time This Easter

When it comes to my Top 20 favorite things that have nothing (okay, almost nothing) to do with wining, dining and romancing, hiding presents ranks pretty high. I'm a nut for games and I adore setting people up to have a great time. This is probably why I'm such a sucker for Easter. I mean, really, who doesn't love a treasure hunt?

 

 

If you want to get in on the act and make sure your sweetheart, children, friends or even co-workers have a blast that keeps in tune with the holiday, set up your own Easter egg hunt. What you choose to hide, of course, is up to you. Stick with candy, toys and eggs for the kids, but let your imagination run wild for a distinctly adult Easter celebration! (Oh! La! La!)

Once you have the eggs, presents, sweets or what have you together, there are some excellent hiding spots that can keep your treasure hunter or hunters hopping. Some of my personal favorites include:

· For the great outdoors – If the weather cooperates, the backyard is a great place for an egg hunt. Try hiding treasures in hedges, tree branches, behind the heat pump, in the grill and so on. One of my all time personal favorites was on top of a single story roof, but my sweetie at the time didn't appreciate it! I even left clues on the ladder leaving up, too!

 

· At the office. Office egg hunts are actually becoming pretty popular. Hide gift baskets, eggs and treats in cubicles, the break room, outdoors in the hedges and so on. Drive them really crazy and put the big prize in the cabinet that's found under most copying machines!

 

· At home and indoors can be spectacular. If you're hiding Easter treats indoors, do remember where they are all hidden if they happen to be perishable. Beyond this, the sky is the limit. Some of my favorite spots for hiding items include behind the toilet tank, in the dryer, on top of the television set, in the kitchen sink and even in the linen closet. If the egg hunt happens to be a romantic one, don't forget to hide something extra special under the sheets.

 

Egg hunts are a great way to create a fun Easter tradition for anyone of any age. Depending on the treasure and the treasure hunter, you can even make the occasion romantic!

 

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Be My St. Paddy's Day Sweetheart

If you want to turn on the charm and turn up the heat this St. Patrick's Day there are some incredibly playful ideas that can help you take the celebration behind closed doors. Turn down the lights, spark up the candles and soften the music -  you can bring the wearing o' the green in the bedroom and have a grand time in the process!

 

 

 
 

No matter how you play it, you will have to do a little planning to make the night perfect. With a little effort and imagination, you and your sweetie can turn St. Patrick's into a night to remember.

There are a variety of ways to celebrate St. Paddy's just for two. Some of the most deliciously naughty include:

• Going green. Consider a little St. Patrick's Day dress up. Greet your lover at the door in a green bow-tie with a green arm band and St. Patrick's Day Derby. Or, if you're a lady, drive him simply wild with a green negligee, green garter and green thong. You are certain to make your lover dance a jig! For an extra special touch, consider toasting to your love with champagne dyed green just for the occasion. You can even prep the room with a host of candles, green satin sheets and rose petals.

• The edible touch. If an even racier celebration is more to your liking, consider some unique edible treats for the boudoir. Nothing gets engines revving quite like a playful time with green colored whipped cream or green dyed ice cubes used in sensual ways. Green chocolate dipped strawberries and other sexy sensations can also turn up the heat and set the tone for a night you will remember.

• Role play is always a hit. If you and your lover like to role play, this holiday offers some incredible opportunities. Play the role of a Celtic warrior or a fine and comely Irish lass.

• Pamper your sweetie. Draw a warm bath and fill it will green bubbles and surround the tub with luxurious scented candles. Don't forget green flowers and a sensual massage after you dry off.

St. Patrick's Day parades aren't for everyone. If you want to go green, but do it in private, let your imagination be your guide. There are some tastefully naughty ways to celebrate the green and have some spirited fun in the process!

 

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Use St. Patrick's Day As A Springboard To Romance

Do you have your eye on a beautiful lady you'd like to ask out on a first date, but you've been putting if off out of fear of coming on too strong or hearing a big, heart wrenching no? Relax! I have a few ideas up my sleeve I can share.

When it comes to first date holidays, St. Patrick's Day is one of my favorites. Time is still on your side for planning, fellas, but don't let the opportunity slip away!

 

So, why is March 17^th my favorite first-date holiday? It's simple … this day is filled with tons of fun-loving celebrations. This means the pressure is off both you and the object of your affection when it comes to dreaming up excellent first date ideas. St. Patrick's Day can be as romantic and sweet or as wild and crazy as you both want it to be.

Now, you're probably wondering how to make it all happen, right? Of course you are! So, here's an outline for a game plan you can use:

 

The ask out – Send the lady who has caught your eye a holiday themed gift basket with an invitation for the big night out. Go with something fun and sweet, but not saucy here fellas!

The date – The best plan here will depend a lot on how rowdy or romantic you want the date to be. For a very mild and fun date, consider taking her to a St. Patrick's Day parade. This is a very unassuming venue for a date that doesn't put pressure on either one of you. You will have fun, too! If something a bit more lively is what you have in mind, try an Irish pub with dancing and music. You will not be disappointed. Should more quiet and romantic be to your liking, find a restaurant that serves up great Irish fare and has a soft atmosphere.

The top off – It doesn't matter what kind of date works the best for you, don't forget to top it off right! Take her out for green beer or an Irish coffee.

St. Patrick's Day is an excellent first date holiday. You won't find a day that's filled with more lively fun than this one! Kick up your heels and throw caution to the wind. Ask her out!

 

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A Chat With Cupid

As February 14^th rolls around, the hearts and minds of many people ponder love, romance and that crazy little guy who gets the credit for making some of the best matches in the world. But, just who is this Cupid guy and what is his real story?

 

 

Recently, I had the pleasure of interviewing this elusive God of Love. The following is a cleaned up transcript of our discussion, complete with notes on some of the action. Let me tell you, that Cupid is a little firecracker.

Question

So, Cupid we are now in the new millennium. Have you made any adjustments to bring your craft up to speed with the times?

Answer

Yes, in fact, I have. I recently traded in my bow and arrows for this excellent laser gun.

Question

How is that working for you?

Answer

It is incredible. The speed and precision it provides are truly amazing. This baby enables me to hunt down even the worst of the romantically reluctant, commitment phobic people out there with no trouble at all. Romantic deadbeats do not stand a chance against this particular weapon of love. When I hit them, they fall head over heels for a special lady or a hot guy. Have you ever seen the pitiful eyes of puppy dog love? Well, that is what this does to my targets and a whole lot more.

 

Question

Really?

 

Answer

Really.

 

(Cupid eyes Romeo a little too closely for Romeo's comfort. He slinks down in his chair, never taking his eyes off the laser.)

Question

So, who exactly are you Cupid? I have heard all kinds of stories, but most of us just think you are a fairy with a penchant for diapers. What gives?

Answer

Of all the nerve!  I have you know that I am the Roman counterpart to the Greek God Eros and control the forces of erotic love.  My name comes from the Latin word “Cupido” which translates to “passion, desire and yearning.  

 

My powers are legendary and they are inescapable. Once I have you in my sights, you will succumb to my powers and fall madly in love with the mate of my choosing. No mere mortal stands a chance after they have been zapped by my all-powerful laser. That much I can tell you for certain.

 (Cupid leans in a little closer to Romeo.)

Question

What are your plans this month?

Answer

I intend to hunt down a few of the men on my Top 10 Commitment Phobic list. Oh, will you look here? It seems, Mr. Romeo, that you have earned the distinction of being on my list.

(Cupid raises his laser and smiles devilishly at Romeo.)

Commentator Romeo

Well, Cupid, that is all the time we have for now.

 

End transcript.

 

Well, as you can see folks, that Cupid is one crafty little guy. Fortunately for me, I am a little craftier and I can run at warp speed. He will not catch me until I am good and ready. I promise I will be someday, but until then he will have to satisfy himself with the other nine escapees on his list.

 

I just wish I had found out the story behind the diapers. Maybe next time.

 

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Make Your Valentine's Day Perfect For Two

With February 14th coming up quickly, the minds of many men are set on finding the perfect gift to give their Valentine. The old traditional standbys, such as flowers, candy and cards, no doubt will sell in abundance. Adventure, creativity and real romance, however, will likely get shoved aside in the rush to thrust a perfect gift into the hands of a loved one.

 

 

Come on fellas, we can do better than that. Let me tell you, if you really want to impress your ladylove and give her a Valentine she will not soon forget, think gifts that create experiences for two. Certainly, you can still get her flowers, candy and even a special gift basket. In fact, these things can put the icing on the cake. Do not, however, forget the cake if you want a very special night.

For you daring guys out there, there are ways to turn your Valentine present into a complete, multi-course adventure. This can be done on a shoestring budget or you can pull out the platinum card and have a grand time. Regardless of the expense, make sure the little details are just right and you will sweep your sweetheart off her feet.

Sensational On A Budget

Even if you have the budget of a pauper, you can give your lady a night she will remember forever. Take her to a romantic restaurant for an intimate dinner for two with music, dancing and champagne. If that costs too much, order in and make your living room the setting for romance. After the wining and dining are over, take her upstairs for dessert that includes fine chocolates, more champagne, or even beer or wine if that is more to your liking. Set the tone with soft music, candles, flowers and even give her a special present when you sit down for dessert and what comes next. Trust me guys, she will notice the attention to detail.

For The Big Spenders

If your budget is a little more generous, you can really do things to the nines. Select a perfectly romantic restaurant for dinner, follow this up with dancing and then take your lady to an upscale hotel for the evening. Book early to get a honeymoon suite if you really want the night to shine. At the hotel, make sure there is plenty of champagne waiting, strawberries dipped in chocolate and even a few other romantic perks like a heart-shaped bathtub or a decadently appointing king size bed complete with cushy feather pillows.

Yes, guys, this idea will set you back more than a few dollars. Your lady, however, is worth it. Plus, you will not find yourself complaining when your sweetheart turns up her fire.

Giving a Valentine is not just about pleasing a single person. This day is meant for couples. Considering gifts that create experiences for both of you can take the cliché out of the holiday and make it an extraordinary adventure neither one of you will forget.

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Romantic Valentine's Day Gift Ideas For The Guys

Romancing is not a one-way street. If you ladies want to get in on the act this Valentine's Day, there are some fantastic ideas out there for presents that can really get a guy's engine revving. While we're not the easiest in the world to buy for, if you listen up, I'll let you in on a few secrets that are sure to please the man in your life!

 

The secret to buying romantic Valentine's presents for your man lies in understanding his deepest desires or passions. If there's something you really know turns him on, go with it! If you're unsure, here are a few ideas that are always a hit on the romance charts:

• Sophisticated gift baskets. Guys love it when their gals appeal to their upscale, polished side. Chic gift baskets that include gourmet delicacies, classy presents and beautiful packaging really get our attention.

• Upscale boudoir photography. If you've got it, flaunt it! While many of us won't admit it, we love it when our ladies primp and pose for the camera. Now, mind you, I am not talking terribly revealing or naughty pictures here (unless you really want to do that – wink). What we really love are classy shots of our ladies that cover just enough to let our imaginations run wild. Ooh! La! La!

• A night on the town followed by an evening of romance. Who say guys can't be wined, dined and romanced, too? We love it when our ladies surprise us with special plans. Turn the tables on your man and you'll have him eating out of your hand!

Valentine's Day isn't just about guys romancing the gals. Ladies that want to make pre-emptive strikes will find there are plenty of ways to get their guys roaring and ready to go. Just don't forget to turn down the lights!

 

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Guys Can Avoid Valentine Day Cliches And Come Out Smelling Like A Rose

With February 14th fast approaching, guys all over the world are starting to write their shopping lists. Cards, flowers, chocolates, cute teddy bears and jewelry tend to be the top purchases year in and year out. These traditional Valentine gifts are sensational, but if you consider them a little more closely, they are a bit cliché. They can even get a little boring for a lady to receive year after year.

Seriously, how many stuffed animals does one sweetheart really need?

Guys, it is time to break from tradition and get more creative in shopping for Valentine gifts. Resolve to make February 14, 2010, the year of change. Our ladies are tired of the same old, same old. They want to see us exercise our brains and come up with something truly spectacular.

Yes, that is a tall order. After all, if we select wrong and disappoint, it can be worse than not buying a present in the first place. Sadly, missing Valentine all together is akin to forgetting her birthday, or even more horrific an anniversary. So, it is easy to see why guys take the easy bet and go cliché every year. Many think that it is better to be safe than sorry. While this might be true, it does not hurt to think outside of the box once in a while. Guys who are particularly shaky about this notion can hedge the odds in their favor by doing both. If you go crazy, but back it up with traditional, you will not go wrong.

 

 

So, how does a guy break out of the boring box and dazzle his sweetheart with a stunning Valentine?

That all depends on the sweetheart in question. Consider your lady and her particular likes and dislikes. Pay attention to the things she says she wants and maybe even the things you think she will benefit from.

If your lady is one who works nearly around the clock, pamper her a little. Think about ways to get some of the load off her shoulders, sweep her off for a romantic getaway, or simply unplug the alarm clock and let her sleep in. Backing this up with a traditional gift does not hurt, but let the main present be your attention to detail when it comes to pampering her. Wait on her hand and foot and ensure her every need is tended to. She is going to love you for it.

Should your lady adore surprises, treat her to a special scavenger hunt to find her gift. Make that gift something she has really had her eye on, rather than simply the basic Valentine fare. Use things like flowers, chocolates and gift baskets as teaser presents along the way, leading up to the real prize.

Some ladies love adventure. If yours does, appeal to this side of her personality. Present her with a gift basket, new skis and tickets for a quick getaway. Or, if she prefers her adventures in private, consider a slightly saucy gift for the boudoir that you both might enjoy.

Guys, it is possible to break out of the cliché mold and not get strangled by your Valentine. Play to her personal tastes and her desires and you will not go wrong. If you find yourself a little nervous about the idea, back up your bolder present with a traditional one. Doing both will really win her heart.

 

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Heat Things Up With Valentine's Day Role Play

As much as I adore the sweetness of Valentine's Day, I have to admit I prefer a rather steamy Valentine's night. When all the right ingredients go into the planning, there's no reason why this romantic holiday can't spark some serious flames of passion.

My favorite way to turn the heat up a notch or ten? Romantically wild Valentine's role play!

 

 

Now, my regular readers already know, but for those who don't, I happen to very much enjoy a little role play in the bedroom. It is incredibly sexy to dress up or even just act out "perfect" romantic scenes from literature, the movies, television and most especially history. If dress up sounds a little too "out there," simply casting yourselves into the roles of legendary couples if only for a few moments can really add to passions and heat things up.

Some of my favorite couples to emulate, especially on Valentine's Day, include:

• Aragorn and Arwen. This dashing couple from the "Lord of the Rings" knew what real love and passion was all about. Besides, what lady doesn't look stunning dressed in medieval finest and elfish princess jewelry? (Oh! La! La!)  I must say, Aragorn's ensemble isn't half bad either, blending just the right touch of class with a little bit of grit and brawn.

• Tarzan and Jane. Really heat things up this Valentine's by turning your boudoir into a jungle! Ladies adore Tarzan and we all know he's swinging crazy about Jane.

• Rhett and Scarlett. Frankly my dear, I don't think there's ever been a more passionate couple on the big screen. Acting out some of their hotter scenes and taking the storyline where censors wouldn't dare let the actors go can prove incredibly steamy!

Those are just a few of my favorites, but now you get the idea. If heating up Valentine's is your desire, let your imagination be your guide. You can't go wrong!

 

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Romantic Games That Would Make Cupid Blush

Sure, Valentine's Day is about sweet greeting cards, to-die-for gift baskets, plenty of roses and celebrating love. It is, however, also about high romance and steamy passion. If the latter is to your liking, I have some ideas for you! In fact, a few of them might even make Cupid, that devilish little cherub, blush ruby red.

When really turning up the heat on Valentine's romance is your intent, romantic games can provide a fantastically naughty spin for this holiday. (Just don't forget to give him or her a card, some flowers and even a big basket, or you're likely to get clobbered!)

 

 

Some of my favorite ideas for spicing up this already romantic occasion and turning up the heat so high there's danger of sprinklers going off include:

• Romantic role-play. Cast yourself and your sweetie in the roles of legendary lovers. Romeo and Juliet. Bonnie and Clyde. Antony and Cleopatra. You get the idea! Just take a cue from their passions and have some fun. You will not be disappointed!

• Naughty trivia. Adult trivia games are great icebreakers and they quite often lead to some very juicy discoveries. Find out more about your partner and how to please best by breaking out a game!

• Strip poker. It's a classic, but it got to be that for a reason. Strip poker is downright fun! My favorite part is the fact that even if you lose, you win!

• Truth or dare. Sure, this one takes you back to your old school days, but is that really a bad thing? Just think of more "grown up" and "sexy" questions and dares and this blast from the past can prove delightfully racy.

Valentine's isn't just about sweet romance and holding hands. For couples with a burning passion, this day is also about turning up the heat! Have a little fun this year and make Cupid blush while you're at it!

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